Single Parenting

While single parenting is not easy, it may be the right choice for you. We applaud you for choosing “life’ for your child and it is important for you to be able to provide a safe and stable home for your child. Single parenting can be very stressful and there are some things that you may want to consider.

Will the birthfather be supportive of my decision to be a single parent?

Birthfathers have certain and specific rights in each state. He may or may not choose to cooperate with your plan as a single mom and it may be a good idea to talk with him about this before your child is born to learn if he will be supportive of or opposed to your plan. As a single mom, you may also want to consider rights he may have in regard to visitation and custody.

What about finishing high school and going on to college?

Many single parents have completed high school and obtained a college degree. Being a single parent does not mean you cannot successfully overcome challenges you will face. How successful you are will likely depend on the extent of support you receive from your parents, the birthfather and whether or not you are willing to make the necessary sacrifices to attend school, work and parent at the same time.

Where will I live after my baby is born?

Unless you have significant financial resources, “making it totally on your own” may prove to be very difficult depending on your age and level of education, as well as your employment opportunities. Your best option for housing will likely be with your parents and we encourage you to discuss your options with them.

What if I choose to parent and then decide I am not able to deal with the stress and responsibility?

You may make an adoption plan at any time after you take your child home.